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sit on the fence

to avoid taking a side

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In more detail

(idiom) to avoid making a decision or taking a side in a disagreement; to remain neutral

Examples

• He didn't want to sit on the fence, so he finally chose which team to support.

How to use sit on the fence

This is an idiomatic expression used when someone deliberately avoids declaring support for either side in a debate or conflict. It often carries a mildly critical tone, suggesting indecision or unwillingness to show courage. Use it when discussing politics, relationships, workplace disputes, or personal decisions where a position is expected.

Register: informal

Common phrases

• sit on the fence about
• refuse to sit on the fence
• can't sit on the fence
• sitting on the fence over

Synonyms

remain neutral · stay impartial · straddle the fence · avoid commitment · hedge

Opposites

take a stand · commit · decide

A common mistake

Learners sometimes confuse this with 'straddle the fence,' which is a synonym, not a separate meaning; they are interchangeable in most contexts.

Nearby in Headline Expressions

double down, walk back, pass the buck, a red line, a smoking gun, a seat at the table

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