beat around the bush
to avoid saying what you mean directly
In more detail
(idiom) to avoid talking about the main point or subject; to talk about other things instead of saying what you really mean
Examples
- Stop beating around the bush and tell me what you really think.
How to use beat around the bush
This is a common idiom used to criticize someone (or oneself) for being indirect or evasive in conversation. It suggests the speaker is deliberately or habitually avoiding a sensitive or important topic rather than addressing it directly. The tone is typically mildly critical or frustrated, though it can be used self-consciously or with humor.
Common phrases
- stop beating around the bush
- quit beating around the bush
- beat around the bush about something
- don't beat around the bush
Synonyms
skirt around · hedge · dance around · talk around · avoid the issue
Opposites
get to the point · speak plainly
A common mistake
Learners sometimes use it as a noun phrase (e.g., 'the beat around the bush') instead of recognizing it only as a verb phrase with an object, or they add the definite article incorrectly ('beat around the bush about it' is correct, but 'beat the bush around' reverses the word order incorrectly).
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